I often talk about “going with the flow.” I’m a big proponent of going with the flow. I think I do it so well. I even get a little annoyed at those that just can’t go with the flow. Well, lately I notice it’s not so easy.
We are still vacationing and visiting family in California. That part is great. I KNOW I have the best family anyone could have. We are busy, planning each day, going here and there, making sure we fit everything we want to do into these weeks. Busy, busy, busy little bees we are. First of all, understand that I wouldn’t change any part of this visit at all. I would be miserably unhappy if I missed seeing someone I wanted to see or going somewhere I wanted to go.
However, I am reminded of the main reason we moved to a quieter, serene and tranquil life. I just don’t like to HAVE to be somewhere all the time. I value my alone time. I like spending time with me. It’s easy to go with the flow when not much is flowing!
I have built a little cocoon life for myself (hubby included). We go to church two times a week. We live in a positive atmosphere. We have our friends that we visit with. We have our little routine that we live. AND all of this has made for a nice little stress-free life. It was by design. I was through letting stress get the better of me.
Isn’t it interesting that every time we would visit in California, my body would react with pain. I thought that maybe it was the weather??? Silly me! It didn’t occur to me that I was just getting caught up in all the ado. I haven’t been taking time to say my positive affirmations as often. I feel that I am being encroached upon. Bottom line is that I haven’t been going with the flow. I’ve been complaining! I hear negative talk and I have been buying into it! I’ve become grumpy! I’m not being patient or considerate! Ouch, this really hurts.
It would be so easy to blame this on being out of my regular realm. I could say that it will all get better when I get home. The truth is – that is baloney! I take me wherever I go. I am me wherever I go.
So, what to do? Well, first off, I will not beat myself up. The fact that I’ve recognized this whole thing is a huge revelation for me. GET CENTERED! I know that when I’m aligned with God and in tune to who I really am, I see Life in a beautifully clear way. Take deep breaths, know how deeply and completely loved I am, smile, feel the peace that is within me, look at the world through the eyes of my heart, not my head, know that each of us is doing the best we can at any given moment, and stay in the now and out of the how. This is what I’ve been missing. This is where I belong, this is what brings me peace and joy. This is what it takes to “wake” me up and in-joy life. This is what it takes to be able to go with the flow in a peaceful, light-hearted way. This is where and how I love living my life. Remembering that God is in the midst of EVERYTHING, ALL THE TIME. Knowing that that is a good thing.
It doesn’t matter where I am or what I’m doing. This is the truth of who I am, who we all are. Busy lives aside, we are all spiritual beings, not human doings even if we get caught up in the everydayness of life. The Universe is here FOR us, not against us. That’s why feeling positive feels good and feeling negative doesn’t feel so good. Negativity goes against our nature.
I’m reminded that happiness is a state of mind that we choose, over and over again. We don’t choose it once. It is a daily decision. IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT IS GOING ON AROUND US! That’s the thing, it just doesn’t matter. It’s what is going on inside of us, not outside. So simple to remember, yet sometimes not easy.
I am affirming today that I am at peace, I live in joy, I see the positive aspects of everything that comes my way.
Some people would say that I live in sort of a “pollyanna” world. I say that I live in the “best” world. This is the Life that works for me. This is where I thrive. This is the “real” me. In this I find it much easier to go with the flow of life. In this I find gratitude.